๐ To Halloween or Not To Halloween ๐
For every Halloween I can remember - weโve had a debate about what we should do and whatโs expected of us as Believers in Christ.
Even though we are dressed up as a hunter and a turkey, and itโs for a Halloween Trunk or Treat, we talked about this opportunity before and after.
For us, we tend to focus on the intent behind the celebration and the outreach that we may or may not be able to have. To be honest, though, sometimes we still donโt know if we are doing the right thing.
Hereโs my 2 cents concerning Halloween, but take it with a grain of salt as I do not claim to be all knowing and tend to take each instance (and October 31st) on a case by case basis.
Matthew 12:33-37 says ' โMake a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit. You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.โ '
For us this means that we must try to be cautious about what comes out of our mouth and how it affects our witness. We canโt control what people think of us, but we can control what we do and how we do it.
With that said - we have done and celebrated almost any way possible. Such as:
Weโve โhiddenโ in the house with the curtains closed.
Weโve โpartiedโ with friends going home in a drunken mess.
Weโve quietly celebrated with friends watching Halloween type movies (this is actually our favorite thing to do).
Weโve dressed up and waited in crazed anticipation for trick-or-treaters.
Weโve participated in โcleanโ church events that ranged from dark cardboard mazes to brightly lit cake walks and bobbing for apples.
Weโve escaped the house and spent time as a family eating a ton of pizza, swimming, and playing basketball.
Weโve dressed up and weโve not dressed up.
โฆand do you want to know the truth about something?
We kinda like scary movies.
We kinda like (okay - LOVE) all things fall.
We kinda - really - love candy.
We kinda like dressing up.
We REALLY love spending time with our friends.
So thatโs what Halloween has become to us. A time to spend with friends.
While we decorate for fall with leaves and pumpkins and beautiful red, yellow, and orange flowers, we donโt decorate for Halloweenโฆ except, this year. This year we are going to celebrate with a Pre-Halloween Party. We are going to have Halloween themed snacks, drinks, decorations, rollers, games, and hopefully a perfect time to gather, fellowship, and just enjoy time together with friends (both old and new).
Will we do this again next year? Maybe.
Will we condemn people who celebrate differently from us? No
So - where do we stand on celebrating or not celebrating Halloween?
Where we always have stood.
Confused and praying for clarity each and every year.
October 31, 2018 - Stormi and Stephen Barkley after Trunk or Treat
2020 Halloween Stephen Barkley and Ben
2020 Halloween - Maggie May snoozing with Stormi and Stephen Barkley
2019 Trunk or Treat: Pop Tarts with our Toaster
2019 After handing out more candy after handing out candy for Trunk or Treat
2016 Pumpkin Patch at Maranatha Bible Camp - Amy Woods and Emmalee
2015 - not really a Halloween picture but Ben dressing up to help entertain the nieces